Look at me!!…..
I have only just realised how many persons have an issue with maintaining eye contact when talking to someone.
Just dropping off my daughters to school and saying hello to a parent who I get along with and she just couldn’t maintain the eye contact. Her eyes kept dancing every which way but to my eyes. Having a child who has an issue with maintaining eye contact it has been been fascinating to see perfectly ‘normal’ people who clearly also struggle with it.
My father is actually one of them, I remember calling him on it once when a colleague of his came over so excited to see him and engage him in conversation and my father never once looked at him. Spoke to him but no eye contact at all. My Dad response was hey he was talking to him why did he need to look at the man LOL.
Makes you want to yell “Look me in the eye ALREADY!!”
But I know that is bad because I know now that maintaining eye contact can be overwhelming for some people more than others.
Plans and Goals
I went through an exercise recently where I outlined my goals and plans for 2016. THis is new for me I never do this as I don’t normally think I need the pressure to actually accomplish the goals but this year I felt I needed to see what I want to do and plan it out. I have so many things I want to do. Arhhhhhhh. That I am actually just not doing anything LOL. I am going to write more and draw and paint more but just need to start. And that is my achilles heel getting started. So this post is me actually just starting and not allowing myself to have the ideas but shelve it because procrastination, fear or being overwhelmed.
As I said I have lots I want to accomplish this year which means starting, carrying through and FINISHING!!! LOL wish me luck.
Everybody is getting old around here!!!
This week is birthday week for two of the kiddies my two oldest as a matter of fact.
My boy just turned 15!!!! Yes 15 when did the time go. AND here is the shocker he actually requested people over! He wanted his friends to watch a movie with him. Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles of course. No he did care that it was old and what he watched last year LOL. I was blown away and hastily invited the two friends he asked for and he seemed to enjoy himself. Woot woot!
This Friday oh! that would be tomorrow the big daughter turns 13!!! Yikes my baby girl is going to be a teenager! She is also going to have friends over as well. Wow before I know it they would be going off to college and talking about marriage. Sorry couldn’t stop that wave of melodrama!
ooooOh I am happy to have taken the time to write this post. Yay!!
Hope everything is going great for you too! Have a great weekend.
(sorry if there are typos feeling lazy to edit :p)